One helluva night!

So.. I was recently talking to a new female person online and eventually she refered to being kinky. She was shy about saying anything about that for fear I'd get all wierd since our conversation was just normal non-sexual banter. When I wasn't all mortified she invited me out to kink night here in calgary. I thought about it and ended up agreeing to going out. Why not? You only live once right?

So I call up another kinky friend I know and ask her if she is going. For sure! And it turns out Ty (mutual friend of SG's and I.) was there as well as a good friend Lady Seraphina. It was awsome seeing my friends after so long.. (3+ months.. its long for me lol) It started out fairly tame but the atmosphere was definately open and very kinky lol. The doorman/woman said I was a big guy and asked if I was hung like a camel. I responded, I've never seen a camels penis but maybe lol.

Now know this.. I've never really dove too far into the kinky community or experienced an over the top kinkyness so this was all very new to me. I saw guys in assless chaps.. Women with only paint on their bodies.. women in straight jackets.. women dressed up like little girls and calling their masters daddy.. the whole shabang. It was so very interesting to see so many different fetishes and interest co-mingle.. not to mention the half naked women walking around with just tape over their nipples lol. When it was discovered it was my first time to there.. the ladies "had" to stamp my penis with a VIRGIN stamp lol. Normally I'm not so open but I was swept up into the atmosphere and just having a blast.

So curiosity got the better of me..I was hanging out with my friends and their friends in the basement.. yes.. the basement. I saw all manners of Dom/sub relations.. discipline.. whips... crops.. everything.. I watched my friends get beat.. and in return them return the favor.. I watched a lot of different things.. it was all so.. wow.. I didn't know what to think really. I was even contemplating letting my one friend Ang do something light to me.. just to see what certain things feel like. I feel I have a fairly high pain tolerance so I am curious what it would be like and how much I could handle. I saw the after effects of some severe whippings and was.. well.. it made me kinda shiver lol. I even got to see my friend ang get spanked once and having the paddle break over her ass.. that was awsome lol

I had a few drinks and decided to mingle a bit.. there was 2 women there that definately caught my attention. The first I thought was a 50's prima bella so she was all dressed up with a poka-dot headband and fluffed up dress.. with a painted on mole.. think a brunette Marilynn Monroe.. I asked her to dance and although we didn't dance we did end up chatting for almost an hour in the stairwell (it was quiet and away from the blaring music, and no nothing happened lol) There I was talking about my past 2 years experiences in poly and her talking about her own. It was so absolutely wondering finding someone with similar thoughts and feelings about things. I was surprised really.. I truly felt a genuine mutual attraction. She finds confidence very attractive and I was rather confident. How do I know this? Eyes.. I am told I can't tell anything or read people right but this was unmistakable.. when her friends were near she barely broke her eyes from mine, and she had that same smile.. She didn't want to leave when her friends were leaving but she had to go. Only after making me promise to attend the next one. From that point I was flying high and enjoying the night. I visited with friends some more. watched a bdsm female dom, her male and female subs in play. It was erotic..I enjoyed that.. (not the guy mind you..but the female dom and female slave.. wow). While talking with Ty another attractive woman was walking past slowly. She was wearing a silverish/grey dress and a collar. I had to say something. SoI complimented her dress, we chatted it up and it was awsome. I ended up dancing with her a bit later on and just having a BLAST. She gave me her contact information later on before I left with friends. Her eyes matched her dress and they were so.. wow.. lol

All I have to say is my night ROCKED. I am most definately going again, it was a lot of fun and I met quite a few interesting people I NEVER would have talked to before. True things were a bit heavy for me at times for being so new.. but wow.. I'm still grinning and in a pleasant state from it.

Thats all folks!